Where to Meet Rich Men in Lagos

Happy weekend everyone. Okay ladies. Let's get real for a second here. When we are looking for a partner, one of the prerequisites is, does he have a little fat cash in the bank? Yeah yeah, I hear the ones who say love conquers all. While I absolutely agree to disagree, the glaring truth remains "shebi you wan chop love?". It's great to fall dangerously in love but when that love doesn't bring anything else to the table, and when reality hits, it never is pretty! If you doubt me, Try dating a broke guy for 6 months and give me feedback. 

This is no time for judgments! Keep 'em in the 80s where they belong.

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Nowadays, needs have become so primary that you can't afford to write off a fat cheque even if you make a buck yourself.  Afterall,  aren't women meant to play the supportive role? That only means that we get to share resources with our partners.  

Note keyword SHARE. 

So if you're not born with the ultimate silver spoon which automatically guarantees a rich husband in most cases and are wondering where and how to get hold of Mr. Fat Cheque, here's your chance.  You will need to up your game though, because believe me,  the competition is steep. The girls are out for a witchhunt. Join the league and become a winner. 

Here's how:

Update your wardrobe
Forget the catwoman costume and barely there outfits.  Remember,  you are hunting powerful men now, and your goal is not to become a mistress. Your eye is on the Madam cash price. Invest in clothes that show off your curves but still cover the right areas.  Best believe that these classic sorts are usually gentlemen and their families are keen on how presentable you are. Take good care of your skin. Get a mani-pedi. Hit the spa at least quarterly. 

Enrol for Etiquette classes

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The way you carry yourself,  to how you handle a glass of red or white wine is all taken into account with these class of men. Learn how to walk without slouching,  learn how to use your cutlery right and make conversation on the table.

Don't Fake but Learn an accent

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Sex on a first date a Yay or Nay?

Hi guys, 

Today on Ask Deina, a loyal follower has discreetly sent in this question :

"Dear EasyLivingDose,  I met this guy a few months ago and we've become fast friends.  We are going on our first proper date this weekend.  Is it okay for me to have sex with him on our date night as we've planned something super romantic. I am a virgin and he's sweet,  gentle and kind and being a modern woman I feel it is time to give it up based on what I've read and seen around me? He seems to be the one. Pls help. Desperate virgin."

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This is Our Reply:

Dear Desperate Virgin, 

Whether you were raised in a Christian,  Muslim,  liberal or any other religious home, a woman's virginity is a thing of celebration.  In some cultures,  the loss of one's purity is considered a rite of passage. This begs the question. Celebration by whom? The society,  religions, the woman's husband / partner or herself?  Personally,  and as a woman who's under the tutelage of feminism and who's still learning to become the truest version of myself, I would rather a woman's purity is celebrated by the woman and not based on what society deems appropriate or inappropriate.

Don't be timid!

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Hi lovelies,  there's a million times when we've all struggled with shyness or come in contact with someone who is in the throes of timidity. Being timid simply put means "showing a lack of courage or confidence".

Are you a timid person? Timidity sees you getting stuck in your comfort zone and never being able to explore new things that might be turning points for self growth. When you are timid,  you can never get anything done or be outstanding.  Timidity keeps you in one place because you are afraid to face reality. You carry on with your life and choose to exist in your own world forgetting that there's in fact a whole other world filled with possibilities just within your grasp if you'd only dare to break free.
Please get out of that box quick and embrace the person you are meant to be.